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The Authors  of 90 Day Marriage Reset  Challenge  &  Your Marriage  Resetters

Jay & Demi are Relatable, Authentic & Transparent, Authors, Speakers, Coaches, Mediators + Curators!

For over 20 years, and from the very beginning of their union, James and Demi Austin-Thomas have always felt called to serve  in their community.

Like most marriages, James and Demi experienced breakdown, brokenness, resentment and unforgiveness during a very difficult season in their marriage. Leaving them to question, if their union was worth saving. They firmly believe that when a couple, can lead with empathy, communicate well, are equipped with the right tools and have a vision of reframing a strong, healthy marriage, you can manifest the kind of marriage that's not only rewarding, but one that is also mutually healthy & fulfilling.


Jay and Demi are not only relatable and transparent, but they are passionate about seeing the redemptive work of God's hand heal and restore marriages. They encourage and empower couples to create an emotional safe space within their marriage by encouraging them to do the work of having honest and honoring critical conversations, that bring about healing. perspective and harmony in their marriage. 

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When not serving as marriage mediators to their clients, and working in their corporate roles, Jay and Demi believe that marriage is what you make it, when you work it, and that marriage is still very sexy. The Thomas's enjoy vacationing every 90 days with the intention to reset, reconnect and retune to keep that ignited spark in their marriage burning. Demi and Jay are also the host and marriage facilitators and curators of their annual Cuddles Date Night Party for Dating and Married Couples in their Cuddles Couples Crew.  Join Their Crew

They have been married since 1999, and reside in Dallas Fort Worth, Texas. They are empty nesters to three adult children, and are enjoying the time of their lives in togetherness as friends, lovers and life partners. 

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Curators
CUDDLES COUPLES

Date Life Event Experiences!

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A Night of
Curiosity, Spontaneity & Intentionality!

Cuddles Couples Date Life Event Experiences is the perfect event for couples of all stages from newly weds to seasoned couples: dating, engaged or married.

 

Our intentional date night event experiences  are designed to bring couples together to create unforgettable, meaningful moments and  experiences. During our events you can expect to enjoy a fusion of fun, and sexy couples activities and entertainment that will bring perspective and insight to strengthen, nurture, heighten and reset your connection and relationship.

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RELATABLE . AUTHENTIC. TRANSPARENT.

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JAMES Jay) THOMAS

LEADER. TRUTH SEEKER. VISIONARY

James H. Thomas III, affectionately known as "Jay" to his bae Demi and "JT" to his colleagues, is more than just a marriage mediator coach and TV personality. He offers a truly unique perspective, particularly from a male and husband's point of view, which has garnered sincere appreciation from countless clients.

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Beyond his coaching prowess, Jay is a die-hard football fanatic and an all-around sports enthusiast. He embodies the essence of being a man's kind of man. His devotion extends to his family, where he passionately embraces his role as a leader, husband and father. Jay's commitment to giving back is a defining aspect of his character. Whether it's collaborating with his corporate team, engaging in community, or contributing to his church, he utilizes his charisma, spiritual insight and humor to make a meaningful impact wherever her goes.

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As a dynamic speaker and master storyteller, Jay captivates audiences and leaves them inspired, and empowered by his transparency, and his passion for being a man leader with a vision for his family. 

 

Fatherhood has always been his greatest gift, while marriage has been an enriching adventure that has taught him the heart values of intentionality, selflessness, and the profound significance of being a fully present and vested husband and  family. Jay's life journey is a testament to his unwavering dedication to enriching the lives of those that he coaches and encounters.

DEMI AUSTIN-THOMAS

REDEFINER.SIZZLE BAE. TRIBE LEADER

Demi Austin-Thomas is not your ordinary Certified Family Dynamics and Relationship Coach; she's a force to be reckoned with. Known for her straight-shooting approach, Demi guides couples through their most challenging and fragile spaces of their lives.

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But Demi's expertise doesn't stop there. She's a Wifey Tribe Leader, a role she embodies with grace, transparency and authenticity. Having weathered her fair share of life's lessons, failures, and struggles while juggling the roles of wife and mother, Demi has emerged as a beacon of insightful wisdom. She coaches busy couples and wives how to prioritize, show up, and re-envision marriage and reset their relationships. 

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With over 17 years of dedicated experience as a coach & family crusader, Demi has touched the lives of women around the world. Her empowering message encourages women to take ownership of their healing journey and rewrite their own stories. She's not just a coach; she's a catalyst for change.

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Demi is a former TV Correspondent for NBC, Media Personality and  Lifestyle Influencer for the kingdom. Her expert insights have graced national TV screens such as NBC, FOX ABC, CBS The Doctors, Hallmarks Home and Family Show and countless media outlets where she's become a sought-after personality, expert and trusted advisor and confidant to high profile industry experts and celebrities. 

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Demi Austin-Thomas is not just a speaker; she's a powerhouse of transformation, a champion of  family , and a leader for women worldwide. Get ready to be inspired, motivated, and empowered by Demi! Your journey to becoming a a better & healthier version of  you starts here - and starts now!

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MARRIAGE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT,
WHEN YOU COME TOGETHER  AND WORK IT!

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